HOP Family BBQ

I went out for a run and went to WGE for a shower and my usual short workout... 

I had reserved a helper to come at 11am as we planned to join some of the HOP members who were camping out in Miaoli at the Magpie Camp Site.

So... I did a load of laundry and got Mom's food ready. Then it was Mom care. I made sure to trim her nails. 

The helper was a bit late, but we were off by 11:20!

We stopped in Hsinchu at the Costco, hoping to get canned whipped cream. NOTHING!

So, we just went straight to the camp site with a quick stop to get Alan some 'breakfast'. We know the feasting will start for dinner!

Isaiah and I walked around and played five holes of a miniature golf course. Alan hung out at the camp site, helping to set up tents, etc. We also got ourselves some coffee and chicken nuggets. At 4:30, Alan and I gathered the couples and had a Marriage Builders Activity. The cooking started at 6pm and boy, was there a lot of food... and all very very yummy! Sliders, scallops, Wellington steak, hot pot, Italian spaghetti, Japanese sushi, Chinese dumplings, desserts, drinks... We stayed until 9:30 and Alan had to drive home. He was tired! We got back at around 11pm and I put everything away before going to bed! What a great day!

Daily Lovely Insight:

I pray that as people in Taiwan are out, gazing and admiring the beams of the moonlight, they would realize and give glory to God, the Maker of Heaven and Earth! For His Creation proclaim the work of His hands!

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Teacher's Day & Mid Autumn Festival -- Back to Back

I forgot to mention that yesterday was Teacher's Day! That's why Alan had a day off. Not all schools give their teachers a day off, but Soochow does! Of course, Alan doesn't get paid anymore. He's a part time teacher! 

Today is Mid Autumn Festival! Mom had no day care!

I went out early and I did 90 minutes with a pair of new Glycerin GTS from my brother, James. Truly, I have wonderful siblings! Annie always blesses me with so much! She has a generous heart! James is a spender, too! I almost fainted when I saw the slip of paper inside the package as to how much he paid for those shoes! 

While out there running, I saw my neighbor, the runner again. He does intervals. And we ran the last 5 k together. I was able to keep up with him! And of course, my time was again FASTER than my normal time. And my legs felt pretty good!

I then got things together and went to WGE. I took a shower there and did a fast 20 minutes workout.

I was home and it was Mom Care! I trimmed her hair again! It looks great! 

Our neighbors gave us moon cakes, so Mom enjoyed THEM! Yes, she had more than one! And for her dinner, she had sushi from Costco. She was very happy! And she ate a lot! I am not kidding! It was a celebration for her!

Alan and Isaiah were home from tennis. It was blaring hot outside. Alan had a meeting with lunch and the food was great. I cooked and did a load of laundry and changed the sheet on Mom's bed AGAIN! 

After Mom went to bed, we played Phase 10 and had Chinese sausages plus all the leftovers that the church sent home with Alan! 

How FUN!

Daily Lovely Insight:

With all the free food that we received today, I was reminded of this verse:

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Planned Silent Retreat!

I have wanted to have a personal silent retreat this year... And with Alan having a day off, I planned it for today. BUT, I learned that I will have to make adaptations to it next time. Let me back track first...

I went out and God again did it... as soon as I stepped out, the rain started. I ran into the same neighbor and we had the same dialogue. I was thrilled for it to be raining as the forecast had reported no rain!

As I got into the park, another neighbor came up behind me. I don't like to run with others, but this neighbor is fast and his easy is my fast! So, it was good training as I again ran faster for the entire 10k.

After I got home, I showered and had time to talk to Alan. He hadn't left yet... so perfect! We prayed together as we do that daily! I got every thing ready for Mom as Alan will be doing the evening routine, except for the bedtime routine!

He left and I got Mom up and out! I packed up everything I needed, got the house tidied up, did a walk through to make sure things were set and took off.

First stop, Carrefour... nothing fun to buy. Then WGE, that was fast and ran into a lady that I've been encouraging. She experienced a personal miracle! YEAH!

Then I scootered to Beitou where the resort was located. I just trusted God to lead as I had looked at the names of the roads... and I got up there without any problem.

Now... the outdoor spa is really outdoors... no awning... and it was hot. So, I sat in the lobby... and that's the first change I'd make. This resort is busy! And the lobby is small! It wasn't quite quiet enough for me. But I sat and read and ate my snacks while people came and went. At 4pm, I finally went out and soaked in the spa area while they had an outdoor BBQ party with MUSIC. HILARIOUS! Their meals are expensive and not what I'd like. So, after a soak, I went back into the lobby and they had all these expensive lotions that you can sample. Luxurious! Then I went down the mountain to McDonald's and bought my cheeseburger, fries and drink. The evening was cooler and the moon was so beautiful! I was home by 8pm!

So, what about my Silent Retreat? I had no WiFi, unlike being at home. The hotel had WiFi, which I could log into. But instead, I sat in the lobby and finished two books -- the Still Hour and 50 People Every Christians Should Know. These books are fabulous. They affirmed what the LORD has been putting upon my heart --long communion with God is a must!

What I love about today? The Spa was only about 30 minutes from our house. The other spa was a 90 minute scooter ride! I didn't run into anyone I know. The lobby had AC and comfy sofas. I brought my favorite snacks. The jacuzzi was relaxing. They had about 8 different hot spring tubs to soak in.

What I would change for next time? A place that is less busy. A place that had a nice coffee shop or a bigger lobby. A few more hours. (I only had about 10 hours and I think 12 will be better!)

I will definitely plan another one... maybe in January of 2024! The point of a Silent Retreat is to put away the cell phone and don't answer messages or text people. It's a time to focus on listening to God, so there isn't conversation with people. It's an extended time of 'sitting at the feet of Jesus'. I would recommend this to every believer!

Isaiah had work and then went to play basketball.

Alan had a free day.

Daily Lovely Insight:

Another George H. Morrison sermon points on Peter sinking:

Peter began to sink in familiar waters.

Peter began to sink after loyal discipleship.

Peter began to sink on a permitted path.

Peter began to sink when he began to fear.

When Peter began to sink, his Savior was not far away.

How encouraging these points are to me, especially the second one! How about you? Which one struck you the most?

There are a few others that I will try to find:

The Refusals of Christ

The Lonely People of the Gospel (Mary, the loneliness of love; Thomas, the loneliness of doubt; Judas, the loneliness of sin)

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Some Welcomed Rain!

This morning as I was leaving for my run, a neighbor who is out early like me to walk her dog said to me, "It's raining outside!" I'm like -- YIPPY! That's my favorite weather! She was very surprised!

So, I ran 11k. Then I was home for a shower as I was soaking wet... and filled with overflowing joy! 

Isaiah took my scooter to the MRT as he parked his at work. Tonight he has dinner plans with Vikki!

Alan had a day off... in fact, he will have five days of vacation! He went to play tennis and then went to the pool. It's now 'free' for him since he's over 65. He then went to Costco to buy milk and sausages as we're going to grill them on Friday for the Mid Autumn Festival!

I was home and decided to bake a loaf of raisin bread in the bread machine! YEAH! I love raisin bread and the bakeries never sell raisin bread with enough raisins. So, making my own is the best choice!

I had to change Mom's bedding and that's with the super absorbent diaper insert and outer diaper! They gave her too much water again!

I got things together for my silent retreat... books that I plan to read, and I will work on two messages. I also will go to the jacuzzi spa that I got a coupon for!

Alan came home and dropped me off at my scooter. I headed to WGE and talked to the trainer. He and his wife are doing better. And I went to pick up trash again! I can't stand looking at the trash while I run along that path. I think it's the bus drivers who stop there for their 'meals'. They don't throw away their own trash!

I was home and Alan came back with all the Costco goodies. 

I left at 3:45 for tutoring and after tutoring went to Carrefour, and stopped at Soochow to visit with the students. I bought some drinks and onion cakes. They were having a BBQ event and concert. Alan was home with Mom care.

I came back at 7:00 as I had to pray with a sister at 8pm. I got Mom to bed and had just enough time to blog.

I am always very ready for bed by 9:30! This is the 'new' me!

Daily Lovely Insight:

In a sermon by George H. Morrison, he used Isaiah 27:8 and had these three points:

1. Our trials are timed.

2. Our sufferings are measured.

3. Our lives are compensated.

How did he see these points from just the latter part of this verse, he stayeth his rough wind in the day of the east wind?

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Yes, It's Hot... UNBELIEVABLE!

I was up and out and the temperature gauge at 5:30 said, "27". It only got hotter as the day progressed!

This morning's task -- the shoe cabinet! Wow... I got that done and got Mom up and out! I cleared a big bag of shoes to donate to the Philippines! I had some nice shoes that I can't wear anymore! Too tight! Too high!

Then it was preparing for my tutoring tomorrow.

At 10am, I turned on the WiFi and downloaded my student's essay! We had our tutoring session at 3:30. I forgot that next week is the big holiday in China, so we won't be having class. But even though 10/10 is a holiday here, I decided to have class. Otherwise, that's two weeks in a row!

But before that, I made more food for Mom's dinner this week! I'm all ready! Spinach, rice and chicken!

Then I drove over to drop off money and all the donation that's stacked in our car. On the way back, I went to WGE. The trainer was busy, so I messaged him to ask him how he's doing. I found a parking space, so that worked out! I got gas on the way home, so that we're ready for the long weekend!

I was home by 3pm and set everything up in the study for tutoring.

When that finished, it was Mom care. Bible study tonight!

Oh, I got two more pairs of shoes from James. But he overspent. I can get them cheaper here! WHAT??? I guess he didn't get free shipping and then there's tax! I just don't like spending 130US$ on a pair of shoes. But he spent more than that! He got me Brooks. I am going to try to purchase a pair of Hoka to try. They are about the same as Brooks in pricing, but I don't know how they will feel on my feet! Friday is a day off, so I hope to go for a longer run in my new shoes! And just when I cleared out so many pairs, I got three new pairs! 

Alan had class. Isaiah had work and then went with his co-workers for a BBQ at ZhongHe Park!

Daily Lovely Insight:

What does this verse mean to you?

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Special Monday, Special Olympics!

The Chargers Game was at 1am, so Alan was up at 12:45. Isaiah had set up the TV stuff at 8pm on Sunday when we came home from church and after dinner! They are so into it... at least the team won! Again, it was a nail biter!

I got up at 4am and went out at 5:25. Alan and Isaiah were back in bed!

After I got home, I started to work, helping my students edit their application since the WiFi was on! I got Mom up and out and continued. 

Alan went off to school and I used the rest of the morning to pack things up that will be sent in boxes on Tuesday. I ordered the boxes and did housework. It was so hot inside the house! 

At 12:30, I took off to participate in the opening ceremony of the Winter Special Olympics in Taipei! It's the tryouts. I was with a group of special guests! When that finished, I headed back home, stopping at WGE. So, two things happened today: while doing the recycling, I ran into the mother of the daughter who committed suicide in our complex. She looks better, but she now has become a Buddhist. She is home to be with her daughter and she talks to her daughter throughout the day. It makes up for her not being there before she killed herself. She owes her that now. As we talked, I told her to read Streams in the Desert. She recalls that book when she got divorced. I think the Buddhist reading has only brought her down. She immediately said she will read Streams in the Desert as it helped her through a difficult time. She needs to grieve, I know that. But what is happening to her is not healthy at all. The second thing is when I went to WGE, I saw one of the trainers. He was the one who got baptized. And he shared about a recent fight with his wife. Through our short conversation, he realized that he needs to keep his heart at peace with God and not let the situation entrap him to distance himself from her. So, my usual 20 minutes turned out to be longer. 

I rushed home and started sorting through all the books that people dropped off to send to the Philippines! Wow... I had to make several trips to the car. I also had things to donate.

I walked into the house and put the food in the microwave and the phone rings. Mom is back!

Tap was tonight!

Isaiah was at work and then went to get his haircut.

Alan was at school all day!

Daily Lovely Insight:

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SUPER BLARING HOT SUNDAY

I was up early. I got a few things finished and then went out to pick up trash along my running route. There was so much trash! I wonder if anyone would notice. Only one person said 'THANK YOU'. I finished that and went to WGE. I had a longer workout, enjoying the AC!

Then I went to RT Mart to return something that Alan bought and to purchase more inserts as they are on sale!

I was home and Mom care. I cut her hair! And she's back to eating fast!

The boys were home from playing tennis. I took a brief nap. I got everything packed up and we left at 2:20 for church. Two new people came! YEAH! I invited them!

I hope to get more connected to these international students!

I shared the message today... 

We were home by 6:45. Mom care and then out to walk at 8pm. It was still blaring hot!

The week is another God-filled one... as always!

Daily Lovely Insight:

Only God can grow us and handle the struggles we are facing! 

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I'd Like More Saturdays Like Today!

Because the day care center was open!

I was up early and the task was to gather up things to give away!

I got Mom up and out and I did the rest of the 'fast chore'.

I had to go to the hospital for Mom's meds. When that was finished, I stopped at WGE and went straight to the massage place! Alan met me there! The two hours flew by!

I came home and ate! YUMMY! Chips and sour dough bread!

A friend came over at 3pm. I'm helping him to see patterns in his life that need to be dealt with!

He left when Mom came home. I had dinner ready.

When Mom went to bed, we went to see the movie: The Sound of Freedom. 

I did a load of laundry, but not Mom's! The night diaper worked! I'm ordering more... 

Daily Lovely Insight:

Romans 12:12

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Super Productive!

I was up early and after the run, my 'fast' chore was to look for my little plastic cup that I use for my run. I did not find it! 

I got Mom up and out and had to change the bedding... AGAIN! It's been three or four times this week!

Then I took off as I had things to get done before our Date!

I updated my bank book and got a new debit card. I returned a library book. I went to WGE and Carrefour. I went to the MRT Station and asked for a refund on an old MRT card.

I was home by 10:27 and Alan was back. 

We took off and bought Coco before going to Chunghwa Telecom to renew our internet contract. We got faster speed at a lower price for another two years. We went to DHL and got the paper signed so that I can get the shoes that James bought for me! YIPPY!

Then it was off to RTMart for lunch. I got my lunch at the breakfast shop for 50NT$.

We went to RTMart to get special night time diaper inserts. Maybe that will help! And I also got another bottle of bleach. We then went to B&Q for super adhesive and wheels. Finally, we went to Costco.

We were home by 4pm. I had to make the bed for Mom and dinner was all ready!

This evening, we didn't have any appointments or counseling or... anything! I watched another mystery TV show!

YEAH!

Daily Lovely Insight:

I forgot to share that last night, the Lord opened up Baylor's heart and he received Jesus into his life. He walked in, sat down at our dining room table, and I led in saying grace. He started to cry! The Holy Spirt was working! After dinner, I got out the little booklet and we went through it and he said yes when I asked if he wanted to receive Jesus and pray with me! What a glorious evening! the Bible study was canceled so that I could spend more time with Baylor and Vivian! Please remember to pray for them!

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An Interesting PR Day!

Because it's 9/21, Isaiah had a work from home day! 

I got up early! I went out and half way through, I was so hungry... Ha, ha, ha... I headed back towards the tennis courts, hoping that Alan or Isaiah would have water or a snack for me. They weren't even there! So, I pushed through... only by the grace of God! And I even did 10.19k! I don't know how! I was hoping to do 10.23! I'll do a bit more tomorrow!

My chore for this morning was to cook the dinner for Mom and organize my running clothes!

Mom must have drank too much water as the bedding had to be changed, even though I doubled the diaper! That was how much pee she had!

After she took off, I did a load.

At 9:12, I started my PR Day with reading! And that's how I spent the entire morning until 1:30! 

Isaiah was home and he had two meetings and a presentation to prepare!

At 4pm, I left for WGE as he was home to pick up Mom. I got home and he took off to play basketball at Soochow and to get his rackets strung!

Friends came over at 7pm and I made grilled ham and cheese sandwiches. My Bible study was canceled! That was a miracle! I will share tomorrow why!

Daily Lovely Insight:

I read this verse today and it fueled my heart to pray more... for even the desire to do what pleases Him must come from above. I want my kids to have the desire and the power to do what pleases God!

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A New Student!

It was an early morning and it was again HOT!

Today I used the time before getting Mom up to go through the sauces and packets in our fridge! I just started tossing things as there were so many packets that we will never use!

I got Mom up and out and finished the fridge.

Then I finished up a few more chores and prepped for my new student!

This is the grandchild of the president of Ming Chuan! I taught their grandson and now the granddaughter is old enough to start to learn English. And they like the way I taught their grandson!

Before getting there, I stopped at WGE and did a very short workout. The ride was longer because of the traffic!

After the session, I went to Carrefour and found lots of goodies!

I was home and put Mom to bed.

I then blogged and went through my emails.

I was so ready for bed!

Daily Lovely Insight:

Obadiah is so interesting. It is the shortest book of the Bible and it is really about how the Edomites, descendants of Esau, continue to 'hate' the Israelites. It was so timely as I will be speaking about sibling relationship this Sunday! And God continues to defend the Israelites!

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A Fulfilling and Exhausting Day!

I was up early... and out before the sunrise! And it was already 26! I did my 10 and headed home. I always try to get one chore done before waking Mom up.

Today, I sorted through more paper and shredded!

After Mom left, I headed to the MOE as I had baked something for them and had snacks for the assistant. She sits next to me and I used to bring snacks for her every Wednesday. Last Tuesday was her birthday! And I had prepared snacks for her but I forgot them on Friday when I saw her for the MOE dinner.

So, I headed down there and then headed to my Tuesday morning Bible study.

Today we met at Ariel's house. She bought a new place! And the remodeling is done and the house is gorgeous! I love the location and the way the house looks.

We stayed and talked until almost 2pm.

I scootered back and stopped at WGE for my usual 20 minutes! I had a leftover ham sandwich, which I gifted to one of the trainers. I try to share with people there... 

I was home by 3:00 and turned on the WiFi and downloaded my student's homework. I also put a load in the wash and tutoring started at 3:30! We went late and I got Mom's dinner in the microwave and the phone rang... no time to close my eyes for a nap! WAHHHHH... 

Mom is back to eating fast, so she finished her dinner in less than 20 minutes! I barely had time to hang p the clothes and she was finished!

I had no appointment tonight! PRAISE JESUS!

Daily Lovely Insight:

This was the closing passage from our study this morning!

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Another Hot Monday! And VERY Early!

Ok... the VERY EARLY... Alan and Isaiah were up at 12:48am to watch the Chargers Game. So, I went to bed at 9:45 and was up at 12:48. Then I was up at 1:53. Again at 2 and then finally at 3:48. Alan was back in bed by 4:08 at which time I got up! 

I did not have time to rest all day, so I had to skip my tap class this evening. I was too tired!

I got Mom off and took down and put away the clothes. I sat and worked on my talk for Sunday. I am almost finished!

At 11am, our Pastor wanted to go over next year's schedule. After that phone call, I went to get my massage before tutoring!

I usually go long and I did again today!

I stopped by Carrefour and then went for 15 minutes at WGE. 

I was home to get Mom's dinner and cook. Our Bible study tomorrow will be at Ariel's. She bought a new house... I'm sad that she's not living next door. But the remodeling at her new place is finished, so we will go there. I wanted to cook and bake. I'm planning to stop by at the MOE tomorrow with a dessert!

After putting Mom to bed, I was just too tired. I wanted to finish up my talk and go to bed early! And my stomach wasn't feeling well all day... gurgling... gaseous... I think I'm eating too fast! I'm getting a bite here and there. I need to sit down and slow down! I think this past weekend was just a bit too harried and hurried, not to mention the HEAT! It's really blaring, blistering, burning!

Daily Lovely Insight:

In reading John 12:1-8, it occurred to me: how did Mary know to anoint Jesus? Jesus said that her action was in preparation for his burial... Was she the only one who 'got' it? Who understood that Jesus had to go to the cross? And then I thought... God shows the mysteries of the deeper things to those who are willing to sit at His feet! What do you think?

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Time to Rest!

I slept late last night... but I got up early. No run... just rested and went to WGE. 

I was home and Mom care. She didn't untie her hand restrains, but the helper didn't put the diaper on properly. So, I still had to change the sheet! "Good Grief".

I rested most of the morning and then we went to church early. I helped set up and then we had counseling with a couple. 

It was Prayer Walk Sunday. Our last for 2023 and the last for HOP to have on Sundays. Starting in 2024, the Prayer Walks will be on Saturdays, and quarterly!

We came home by 7pm and I got Mom to bed.

Then I had walk and talk with a sister!

I was back by 9 and in bed by 9:30. 

Tomorrow will be another early day! In fact, all this week... and it doesn't look like the temperature will be cooling down!

Daily Lovely Insight:

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A Fulfilling and Full Saturday

I was up and out... but not as early as on the week days... and by the goodness of God, it was relatively cool. I ran my 10 and hit 63.3 this week.

Then I was home and Mom care... and she did it again! I did a load of wash!

Housework... 

Alan and Isaiah came home from tennis. 

We had lunch at home! I had a salad. And Alan had PB&J. Isaiah had food at the tennis courts. Mom had a sandwich and chips!

I had arranged help to come from 3-7! YEAH!

Alan and Isaiah had a massage. I went and had my hair cut and then headed to WGE for a shower and workout! 

I bought dessert and dumplings and headed to church. Alan and Isaiah joined me there.

I led the Discipleship Training time from 7:00-8:30. The turnout wasn't great! But the discussion was!

Daily Lovely Insight:

I have a series of four talks that I'd like to do next year.

Love -- John 3:16

Seek -- Matthew 6:33

Abide -- John 15:5

Excel -- I The. 4:1/Matthew 5:16

I believe these four tenets are the basics of the life of a believer. And often times, these are not apply and thus, there are many who are lukewarm in their relationship with God.

What do you think?

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A Shopping Date!

I was up super early... and it was still 26 at 4:57! I'm not kidding!

I came home and showered and did a few chores! Always!

Then it was Mom care!

After she took off, I called and chatted with Abby until Alan came back home from tennis.

We went off to Gloria Mall in Taoyuan as he needed to buy shoes. We bought FOUR pairs for him. Totaling under 300US$!

Then we ate at the Mall as we stopped to get Coco and food.

We took the long drive back to Taipei and saw the construction of the bridge from Bali to Danhsui. It should be finished by 2025! It looks very nice!

I took a quick nap, headed to WGE and came home for Mom care. Alan had met her downstairs. I had her dinner ready!

Tonight we went out to dinner with the MOE group! Vicky's Mongolian BBQ at Miramar. We've always wanted to try that place. It was good... all you can eat... it was better for someone like Isaiah and Alan.

Oh, you might ask why I didn't buy any running shoes? That's because my brother James ordered two for me via Amazon. I am to receive the first pair on 9/28 and the second pair on 10/11. Two pairs totaling 240US$!!!!!!!!! You read that right! I would never buy at that price! I'm excited to see what I'm getting... They are Brooks... and I think one is Adrenaline GTS and the other might be... I'll be pleasantly surprised!

Daily Lovely Insight:

On October 22nd, I'll be speaking about Martha and Mary, focusing on relationship among siblings. It's quite amazing how much the Bible talks about this particular relationship and how complicated it can get! Look at the first murder... that happened between siblings!

Anyhow, it's quite exciting as I prepare!

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The Stillness of A Gadget Fast!

I was up and then out and ran my 10k. At 5:32, it was 25! Nice... but I like it a bit cooler.

I was home and get started with a few chores before getting Mom up!

After she went off, I tidied up the house and plopped myself on the sofa with my books and coffee and snacks and sat there until 1pm! YES! I DID! I am reading three books... And I did not use my gadgets... I want to extend it to even longer... at least once a month!

At 1:30, I had my lunch and then worked on a few more chores... 

At 4:15, I went to WGE and had my usual 20 minutes. I was home to care for Mom.

No Bible study tonight... but it was fine as I used the time to prep for my October 22nd message: the two named women: Martha and Mary. In fact, I am going to focus on siblings' relationship!

Daily Lovely Insight:

That phrase, as the dew, was mentioned in one of the books that I was reading today for my PR time. And it really struck a cord in my heart. The dew refreshes... the dew became manna... and each morning, as I go and spend time with Jesus, it is 'as the dew' unto my soul. It's a beautiful thought! And through that time, I shall blossom as the lily and cast forth roots as Lebanon!

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A Special Wednesday!

Several weeks ago, I had set this date to go and prayer walk with gals from Glory English Ministry. What a fabulous time!

Let me back up...

Some of you asked about having Alan teach less hours so he can help with Mom more. I would not wish that on anyone. He is retired. He should be free to roam and enjoy himself! I know... I should, too... but I would not want Annie or James or Eddie to give up their lives to care for Mom because I know how 'binding' that is... They have their own lives. Annie has vertigo. Eddie has the care of his family. James just got married and is trying to build his business. So... when Alan or Isaiah has time to help with Mom, they are doing me a favor. For now, this is the season in my life... And God is teaching me different ways to cope and to grow!

So... this morning, no mess because I am back to using those gloves plus the restrainers. YEAH! She can't use her fingers to untie things and undo her diapers. I did run my usual 10 after my quiet time and before getting Mom up!

After Mom went off, I cooked the food for dinner and read a little and the morning was gone! I left at 11:30 and got there at 12:06. Perfect! We started the Prayer Walk at 12:30 and went until 1:30. Then they had prepared an Indonesian lunch, which was delicious. I left at around 3pm and went to Costco. Before getting home, I dropped off letters and checked if 2024 calendar is in. I put everything away and then headed to WGE. It was another 20 minute quick workout as I rushed home for Mom care!

Tonight, I didn't have tutoring as I had it changed to Tuesday afternoon. But I had prayer time with someone from HOP.

I went to bed by 9:30!

Daily Lovely Insight:

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Blistering Heat!

Last night after coming home from Tap, I found two fans in the recycling area. I washed them and they work really well... 

Oh... yes, I got up early and on my way to the kitchen to grab my coffee before my time with Jesus, I smelled something very bad coming from my mom's room. She was again 'alert' last night. I could not, for the life of me, lift her up to put a diaper or a pad under her. I just stood there and prayed.

After my quiet time, I went out for my usual 10k. I took a shower and got Mom up and into the shower and stripped the bed and sprayed the room! It's airing out now!

Mom went off and I worked on my final talk for the month of September. I finished the talk notes and the ppt!

Sitting in the dining room, working, I could feel the blistering heat outside!

Some of you asked about Alan's schedule. It's almost exactly the same as when he was teaching 'full-time' at Soochow: four hours on Monday, six hours on Tuesday, and two hours on Thursday. He used to have four hours on Thursday for a total of 14. Now he has only 12 hours. He still plays basketball on Thursday evening. He still has an evening class on Tuesday. That's why he won't be able to help much with my Mom. I have to limit my tutoring time as I have to be home to pick Mom up each evening. He can help on Wednesday and Friday, but he wants to be 'retired', meaning he wants to go play tennis on a more regular basis! Since his hourly wages is low, I can tutor one hour which is equivalent to his two hours of teaching. So, if I just tutor 6 hours a week, I would be earning the same amount of money as what he makes at Soochow! And that's what I have right now -- about 24 hours a month of tutoring! 

At 2:30, I went out to WGE and came home by 3:20 as tutoring started at 3:30.

Two things I have started to do "recently" which helps my sanity in caring for my mom are: 1. I take out the diaper trash every morning. I just can't stand the smell of urine and with the heat of summer, it reeks. Now, I got paper bags as I was trying to save planet Earth by limiting the use of plastic bags, and wrap up the diaper and toss it in the community bin every morning! 2. I have become very intentional about keeping my Sabbath. Every Thursday I take those 7 hours and I slow down. The first one I started only since late August. The second one I started back at the beginning of this year. It wasn't consistent at first, but since August, I have scheduled it for Thursday!

This evening, I was going to have my Bible study, but it got canceled as three sisters couldn't make it.

Daily Lovely Insight:

Seek Him First!

Football Monday!

We were all up early... but for different reasons.

Alan and Isaiah were up early to watch the Chargers game... NOT ME!

I was up at my usual time... and went out for my run... it was so nice and cool -- 22! I only did 10k and came back. They were still planted in front of the TV.

I showered and got Mom up and out.

Then I started... I finished the Discipleship training talk notes and ppt. I finished the Sunday prayer walk notes and ppt. I finished next Sunday's talk notes and started on the ppt.

At 12:30 I had lunch and I registered for the run! I did... 

At 2:30, I went out and paid for the run -- 71US$ or 2130NT$. There's no turning back! It's on January 6th, Saturday, 63.4 km up and down the mountain!

I went to WGE and came home to make Mom's dinner and her bed. 

Elaine came over at 3:30 to share and pray and Mom was back by 5:10!

Elaine left at 6:15 and Alan came home! Isaiah also came home.

I had made chicken for them plus noodles. They said dinner was delicious.

I had tap dancing tonight. I stayed until 8:30 and came home. 

Blogged and tided up the house and I was in bed by 9:45!

Alan went to bed at 6:45! He said he was just going to rest as I was leaving the house for my tap dancing class. I came home and he was fast asleep! 

Oh yes, school started today for Alan!

Lovely Daily Insight:

Jesus was troubled in spirit... He knew one of his disciples was going to betray him. I don't think it was just the knowing that troubled him. I think it was because of the person!

Judas was a trusted disciple, someone Jesus loved, or else why would he have the money purse? Judas was a trusted disciple, someone Jesus loved, because he betrayed Jesus with a kiss, a sign of intimacy. Finally, Judas was a trusted disciple, someone Jesus loved, because Jesus said that the person I dip the bread and feed it to is the person who will betray me. That action of giving a bite to someone showed closeness. And I believe that's why Judas' betrayal was one of the most difficult kind to face! To be betrayed by someone who is close to you!

What do you think?

Seek Him First!

Sunday Funday!

I didn't go for a run, but I was up early!

I didn't go to WGE until later and I only stayed for 20 minutes.

I got Mom up and she again undid her hands and legs. She didn't undo the diaper, but because of the way she was sleeping, she leaked. So, I had to change the bedding again!

Overall, the day was very calm. I was the translator for our pastor and Mom was fine. I was not stuck in the restroom! 

A dear brother came over after church and it was so wonderful to catch up with him!

Daily Lovely Insight:

Seek Him First!

HOP Picnic!

I was up and not as early as on the week days. I checked the weather the night before and knew that it'd be cool even at 5:30. And it was... I ran 11.7k, finishing off the week at 63.9!

I was home and got my clothes and went to WGE. I showered and worked out and got home. Isaiah had already left as he was playing in the Soochow Alumni Tennis Cup! Alan was at the park, early, to set up! I got Mom up and she had breakfast and lunch and our dear friends, Jenny and Frank, came to pick Mom up to go to the picnic. I rode my scooter. Isaiah was home to shower and took off for his exam. He is taking all these exams to get his 'licenses'.

It was hot...and the food was abundant. Mom enjoyed the cookies, the fruit, the salad, the noodles... everything! I left on my scooter to run a few errands and Frank and Jenny brought her home! I got back right when they arrived!

Alan was still at the picnic! He has a lot of stuff to bring back. They didn't play any games as it got too hot! Alan and Isaiah went for a two hour massage tonight!

I had a free evening to get my talks done for next week!

Daily Lovely Insight:

Seek Him First!

The Wei Alagata Family Game Alliance!

I was up early... I guess I should skip saying this... And the weather was so nice... I think it is beginning to feel like FALL!

I did my 10k and was home!

I had an hour, so I started to fix my cart after my shower! I finished after I sent Mom off.

Alan was home and we met up with friends, the Wei, for lunch. Then they all came over and they introduced us to another new game: Phrase 10. It's a great card game! I am going to order a couple of these... they are the family that introduced us to Red, the card game! Each time we get together, we play games and we have such a fun time! They also enjoy sports! And we've known them before they were married, when they were living in Taipei! They live in San Diego! They have three kids -- two are in New York, working, and one at UC Davis.

They always bless us with snacks and we bought lots of snacks, too. So, while we played, we munched on snacks. We didn't need to eat dinner. Alan dropped them off at home, only because they had to leave. They were going shrimp fishing with some of their cousins... The day just flew by!

Daily Lovely Insight:

Seek Him First!

A Cooler PR Day

I was up early and the morning was so nice... It feels like FALL!

I ran my usual 10k and came home. I did a bit more giving things away! Then I was in the shower and getting Mom ready!

I found a place to have a personal silent retreat. That was one of my goals for 2023- to schedule a silent retreat. The place is an hour away... by car... So, it's going to take 2.5 hours round trip and I only have 7 hours! I hope I can do it next Thursday!

So, I read pretty much the whole day!

Then at 4pm, I went out to run errands and go to WGE. I also mailed letters... It costs 17NT$ to mail a letter to Brazil! I wonder how much for a small package???

Alan was home to pick up Mom and I got her to bed.

Then, it was another free evening... but I had emails to answer and prep to get done! So, it wasn't entirely FREE!

But the wonderful thing was: the day stayed cool! It was delightful to sit on the living room sofa and read, without the AC on, feeling the breeze blowing through the windows. Absolutely delightful!

Daily Lovely Insight:

His voice as like the sound of many waters... maybe like a waterfall or like rain drops... I just liked this verse! Not only to imagine his voice, but that the earth shone with God's glory!

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NO MOE!

 I had a splendid day... 

I woke up early... and went out for a run at 5:20. The weather was already feeling warm!

I got back and did a big of cleaning before taking a shower. The bathroom needed it!

Then it was Mom care. After she left, I got busy with two tasks: fixing a chair and getting things out to give away! YES, YES, YES!

At 10am, I settled down to read!

At 11:20, I went out to buy soy bean milk, pay a bill and get in my 20 minutes at WGE.

Alan was home and we went out. 

It was nice to hang out. 

We first went to his new 'office'... And he has taken over that room! ha, ha, ha... Then I went and looked at the free books... There were so many that I wanted to take and I can donate to people in the Philippines! I didn't finish picking out everything! I will have to go again!

Then we went over to Shihlin and he bought Coco drinks and we went to a noodle shop! YUMMY!

We were home by 4:30! Mom duty... I had dinner ready...

And I HAD ANOTHER FREE EVENING! AMAZING!

Tutoring won't be starting until next week.

Daily Lovely Insight:

Seek Him First!